Procrastinators Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from chronic procrastination.
We need to be prepared for times when we will be tempted to procrastinate or spend our time doing something other than our most important tasks at work or home. This may mean closing Internet browsers, not answering the phone call or email from a friend, turning down someone for lunch or drink, or letting calls go to voicemail or the receptionist for an hour while we work on a project.
In the past, we may have used the excuse of not hurting someone's feelings in order to rationalize a deviation from our work plan. No real friend or truly supportive famly member would want us to fail to complete work on time in order to answer a social phone call or email.
We alone are responsible how we spend out time. If we are faced with distractions, which will activate our procrastination, it is better to be perceived as "selfish" or "rude" or not available all the time for our friends or family than to engage in procrastination that make us feel worse at the end of the day.
When we are willing to go to any lengths to maintain abstinence from procrastination and reach our goals, we can find a way to deal with dangerous distractions that take us from our plans. "No, thank you" or "No, thank you I have conflicting plans" are very useful tools.
I've had a nice holiday, visiting my Mum, and now I've got to get my finger out again. The feelings of stress are already building up, and I just want to sit on my computer and play all evening, but instead I'm going to
get food in
eat
plan my itinerary for Wednesday and Thursday and let J and M know
unpack PROPERLY and either put away or put for washing
be in bed by 10.30 with a view to being at work for 8am, hm, not going to make both of these - I'm choosing the early night. I don't think I've wasted time unduly, I just over-estmated what I could do.
oh, this is so good, I would still be sitting here playing Age of Empires with no food in the house if it wasn't for this wonderful site
I'll copy what I just wrote in chatbox to save some typing.
My Testimony:
11:03:42‹lavida›hello. I am having quite a morning.
11:03:58‹lavida›I had a complete emotional breakdown last night, and prayed.
11:04:18‹lavida›This morning, I was trying to stay calm, focus, do next right thing
11:04:29‹lavida›Got my electric bill together ready to call them to make small payment
11:04:36‹lavida›Less than what's past due
11:04:47‹lavida›and I checked my checking account to see how much I had
11:04:53‹lavida›did my calculations, wrote it down
11:05:00‹lavida›Then there was a knock on my front door
11:05:18‹lavida›I looked through peephole and saw a guy, but not a sheriff (was expecting sheriff for eviction notice)
11:05:34‹lavida›I opened door just after guy leaves, and see disconnect notice for my electric
11:05:49‹lavida›I run out and talk to him, just before he's ready to flip the switch on my service
11:06:15‹lavida›I offer him $50, he says the very least I can pay that it says in his automated system is $86.
11:06:32‹lavida›I light up inside knowing I have $88 and change in my account.
11:06:36‹lavida›Unbelievable!
11:06:45‹lavida›So I paid him and kept my service on
11:06:53‹lavida›Now there's a miracle ...
11:07:09‹lavida›God told me last night during my breakdown that I would see miracles today, so I got my proof
11:07:35‹lavida›And I have just enough coming in tomorrow that I can pay phone bill, and bought personal item
11:07:46‹lavida›But I have nothing left for gas, water or food
11:07:50‹lavida›oh well
11:08:12‹lavida›That's my story. I need to spend the next hour eating and regrouping to figure out my next move
For the record, I was visited by my HP last night during this breakdown. My HP is Jesus. I heard very clearly what he said to me, and wrote it down. I needed for him to prove to me that I can really trust him because my whole life I only learned to trust my family, who refuse to help me now. Well Jesus did. I am not sitting here in heat and darkness without power. I have 2 receipts as proof -- one is the disconnect notice that says 114.xx is required to keep service, yet the other receipt shows I only had to actually pay 86 for the guy to not turn it off, with 88 left in my checking account. That is a miracle. Praise Jesus for saving my little butt today. Amen.
"If you feel you're about to drown, remember Tool 1 and Break .. It .. Down"
Start of a new week, and I've got a paperwork morning and a review meeting with my boss this afternoon. Nice to have a Monday morning where I don't have to hit the ground running and see clients.
tracy-la check in 8-13
Reading for Day - "Be Prepared"
We need to be prepared for times when we will be tempted to procrastinate or spend our time doing something other than our most important tasks at work or home. This may mean closing Internet browsers, not answering the phone call or email from a friend, turning down someone for lunch or drink, or letting calls go to voicemail or the receptionist for an hour while we work on a project.
In the past, we may have used the excuse of not hurting someone's feelings in order to rationalize a deviation from our work plan. No real friend or truly supportive famly member would want us to fail to complete work on time in order to answer a social phone call or email.
We alone are responsible how we spend out time. If we are faced with distractions, which will activate our procrastination, it is better to be perceived as "selfish" or "rude" or not available all the time for our friends or family than to engage in procrastination that make us feel worse at the end of the day.
When we are willing to go to any lengths to maintain abstinence from procrastination and reach our goals, we can find a way to deal with dangerous distractions that take us from our plans. "No, thank you" or "No, thank you I have conflicting plans" are very useful tools.
May I be prepared for times of temptation.
Adapted From Food for Thought: Daily Meditations by Elisabeth L. ©1980, 1992 by Hazelden Foundation.
With this reading, here are a list of things I can do and say to be prepared in times of temptation:
-- close out internet browser
-- close out email for a specific period of time
-- not answer phone for a specific time or ask if I can call them back in an hour
-- not take any last minute social invitations from family or friends
-- don't feel the obligation to go to every kid event or game
Today was off to a slow start, so am going to work on getting things done the next 3 hours at least:
6:40 - 6:45 - get water and walk around office for 5 min
6:45 - 9:45 pm Tasks to be done
-- prep for meeting tomorrow
-- 6:45 - 7:55 pm -- got off track with kid organizational stuff (my way of procrastinating)
- 7:55 pm - 8:25 pm -- conference call with new client
tracy-la
Vic 8/13/12
Show up (done), calender
Elvira back to work
I've had a nice holiday, visiting my Mum, and now I've got to get my finger out again. The feelings of stress are already building up, and I just want to sit on my computer and play all evening, but instead I'm going to
get food ineatplan my itinerary for Wednesday and Thursday and let J and M know
Innertruth's check-in
Work:
Answer emailsSpend 1 hour on updating database (have more names to add) Spent about 2 hrs updating databases.
Visit job boards. Print and organize job leads and contract prospects.Visited 5 job boards, only 3 suitable jobs.Home
Buy milkCut out discount couponsand pick up groceriesRunWash dishesWash blouse for workGet ready for Tuesday (work, medication and questionaire)Keep time log and update PA.(partially done)
tila - Mon
Excited and stressed for upcoming week. Plan for today:
21 days (+ chapters in-between)Vac/Pharma - L/Qdinner/meal planPO, library, RA CSLavida Checkin Mon. 8/13
I'll copy what I just wrote in chatbox to save some typing.
My Testimony:
11:03:42 ‹lavida› hello. I am having quite a morning.
"If you feel you're about to drown, remember Tool 1 and Break .. It .. Down"
Monday
get readyreadingsemail landlordtext landlorddrop computers to computer centrebuy new harddrivedrop harddrive to computer centregrocery shoppingmeetg m amd eput shopping awayclean fridgedinnergo to computer classpay final feeget schedule for course next two weeksMy Day Today
I want to thank my Higher Power for this program, this website, the telephone and online meetings, and my life.
I want to thank Hypatia for starting this trend.
Things I will do today
1. Go to the 5:45 a.m. telephone ACA meeting2. Take shower3. Get dressed4. Eat breakfast5. Go to my appointment to get my mammogram at 8 a.m.6. Purchase my medicine7. Go to my nurse appointment at 1 p.m.8. Eat lunch9. Go to work at 5:30 p.m.10. Eat dinner11. Go to the 9 p.m. telephone OA meeting12. Go to the 9 p.m. online EA meeting13. Finish my Eleventh Step
Thanks for letting me share
Hypatia's check-in
Start of a new week, and I've got a paperwork morning and a review meeting with my boss this afternoon. Nice to have a Monday morning where I don't have to hit the ground running and see clients.
prescriptioncheck typingprint and review job planning papersH.
Hypatia's check-in
prescriptioncheck typingprint and review job planning papersLAC waiting list analysisJ's prescription and formslunchmeeting with bossGood luck! Good to see you
Good luck! Good to see you strike off 3 things already!