Codependency & Procrastinators
I am a procrastinator married to an extreme procrastinator. Sometimes I wonder if somehow I am an enabler to this problem in some way. When we first married, he did a little to help (he's retired and I work (very hard and very long hours). Now, his help is limited to feeding the cat -- period. My house is turning into a wreck and I feel so overwhelmed it's driving me nuts. It was this way when I was raising kids, too. I wound up feeling responsible for everything, because nobody would help . . . and I never could handle it all. I'd look around at the mess and be totally confused as to where to even start.