new here & figuring the site & PA out
Hi- I just joined (well, joined a couple weeks ago & just got on today). I am constantly overwhelmed with too many tasks, including some ambitious ones, and nevertheless find myself wasting hours of time when I really do want to be productive and when I know for sure that if I can only start, I will even get interested. I am sick of living like this (and at a point where I need to take hold of my career and finances or I am sunk).
I don't know about the 12-step thing, though-- I just looked at all the questions, and -- how can you do them if you 1) don't believe in a higher power, and 2) have pretty much only hurt yourself by doing this? It's all about higher power & amends to those you've hurt-- makes sense for AA, but I can;t really fit it in to my experience. I have sure hurt myself, though.