Curious about Self-Control
I mentioned in another post that I "Just wanted to do what I'm supposed to do, when I'm supposed to do it - whether I want to or not!"(I added, "...like a normal person," I spoke of how I just wanted things in my life to be that simple with out professional help or support groups.
Although I'm quite sure its well beyond that I some times come back to thinking my procrast. addictio is just laziness (although I can be one of the hardest working people I know - when I'm not doing something else to procrast, or when I'm right up to the wire of a deadline.)and that I should just "exercise some self-control" and "just get up and do it".
I am curious as to how many of you think that deep down NO ONE wants to do many of the things in their lives and that they just grit their teeth and make themselves do it while it seems we can't. OR is it that we just won't?
Deep -Down, I WANT this to be a simple self-control issue with me and NOT a complicated psychological problem.
Do any of you think our Procrast. is or has any link to laziness or lack of self-control?