I'm going through some difficult times and thought you could maybe help me.
My boyfriend has suffered from chronic procrastination since his adolescence (he's now nearly 30). He is a university student and really needs to overcome his procrastination as he is suffering from it terribly. I have bought books on the subjects, printed out tips and strategies, tried to coach him, and found him a psychotherapist but nothing seems to work. I try not to put to much pressure on him and always show him that i trust and believe in him. But he is like stuck in this problem and seems to have tried for so long and not managed to progress at all. He procrastinates so much that he doesn't even do things he likes if it means he has to make an effort. I could send him to this site or support groups but he tends to procrastinate so much that he would probably just postpone doing it for ever. I really don't know what to do to help him... I think i just need some support... Thanks for all the advice you can give me :-)